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5 things to remember when you’re dating someone exclusively.

Ask Wendy: Dating, Sex & Relationship Advice for the Bold

Hey Wendy,

I’ve been dating a guy for two years. We get along great — intellectually, sexually, humor-wise, etc.

We were long-distance as he worked in another state. We talked or…


A 3-Part Guide to Moving on Powerfully & Finding Love Again

Ask Wendy: Dating, Sex & Relationship Advice for the Bold

Hey Wendy,

I’m getting divorced after 20+ years of marriage. Our kids are grown. I just found out he was cheating on me, and now he’s moving in with…


Dealing with the mindfuck (and fallout) from the number of past lovers.

Ask Wendy: Dating, Sex & Relationship Advice for the Bold

Hey Wendy,

At the start of dating, my wife told me the number of men she’s had sex with was 3. She’s recently admitted that the real number is 40. How do I not despise her for this? …


What to do when the love of your life is polyamorous and you are not

Ask Wendy: Dating, Sex & Relationship Advice for the Bold

Hey Wendy,

The love of my life is a polyamorous woman. I reluctantly accept her lifestyle with the understanding that she will involve me in her encounters somehow (watching, videos, audio, etc.)

The first attempt at this was with a…


The predictable steps you’re likely to take on your journey to finding love.

I went on 121 first dates before I found my love. Can you even imagine? And I discovered there are ten predictable stages to dating.

Not everyone experiences all of them, or even in order. But understanding…


Sorting for compatibility and knowing dealbreakers isn’t always easy.

Ask Wendy: Dating, Sex & Relationship Advice for the Bold

Hey Wendy,

I’m a person who is fit. Health and exercise is really important to me. I’ve recently met someone who’s active but a bit overweight. …


Ask Wendy: Dating, Sex & Relationship Advice for the Bold

Hey Wendy,

I’m divorced with a child, and still manage to get the attention from reasonably good caliber men. I’ve been told (repeatedly) I’m the whole package — kid and all. Yet, my relationships don’t work out for foolish reasons…


Ask Wendy: Dating, Sex & Relationship Advice for the Bold

Hey Wendy,

When I talk to my boyfriend about who or what’s stressing me out, he’ll say things like, “that sucks,” or “I know you’re upset,” or “sounds unfair to you.” For example, I told him I’m stressed over working two jobs” and his response was “that’s really unfair to…


Ask Wendy: Dating, Sex & Relationship Advice for the Bold

Hey Wendy

I have fabulous married women friends. Many of them know I’m on a quest to find love, and many have taken this quest on with and for me. And while I love that they’re looking out for me…


Ask Wendy: Dating, Sex & Relationship Advice for the Bold

Hey Wendy:

My husband and I have been together for eleven years. I feel our relationship might be toxic, but I can’t really gauge it. We only fight a handful of times a year, but when we do…

Wendy Newman

Dating, Sex & Relationship Expert and Author of 121 First Dates (Simon & Schuster). Over 70,000 women trust Wendy’s advice, tools, & experience. WendySpeaks.com

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