Is Being Called “Spoiled” a Red Flag?

Ask Wendy: Dating, Sex & Relationship Advice for the Bold
Hey Wendy,
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about two months. A week ago, we were getting ready to take a quick road trip when I noticed I had to check on something, so I asked him (nicely) to pull a bag back out of the car for me. He told me I was perfectly capable of getting it myself. I was caught by surprise…