I Want to Fall in Love AND I Want to be Alone. Is That Weird?

Ask Wendy: Dating, Sex & Relationship Advice for the Bold

Hey Wendy,

I find dating to be a total waste of time. Yet, I still dream of finding love someday. Part of me wants to find my soulmate, get married, have kids, and be with them for the rest of my life. Another part of me wants to isolate and focus on my own passions. I want to…



Dating, Sex & Relationship Expert and Author of 121 First Dates (Simon & Schuster). Over 70,000 women trust Wendy’s advice, tools, & experience. WendySpeaks.com

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