Can Bad Sex Be a Good Thing?

Ask Wendy: Dating, Sex & Relationship Advice for the Bold

Hey Wendy,

I am 75, met a nice man that has all the qualities I like, and then we had sex, and it was a huge letdown. No foreplay, no buildup. He basically just mounted me. Yes, he was probably nervous and anxious, but when I addressed this with him, he was clueless to what I was talking about. He didn’t own it at all. If he said…

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Dating, Sex & Relationship Expert and Author of 121 First Dates (Simon & Schuster). Over 70,000 women trust Wendy’s advice, tools, & experience. WendySpeaks.com

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Wendy Newman

Wendy Newman

Dating, Sex & Relationship Expert and Author of 121 First Dates (Simon & Schuster). Over 70,000 women trust Wendy’s advice, tools, & experience. WendySpeaks.com

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