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121 First Dates: How to Succeed at Online Dating, Fall in Love, and Live Happily Ever After (Really!)

121 First Dates: How to Succeed at Online Dating, Fall in Love, and Live Happily Ever After (Really!)

Based on 121 real-life dates, Wendy Newman delivers witty, practical guidance to help women date smarter, avoid pitfalls, and find lasting love with c

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Feb 26, 2021

It Took Years — It Should Have Taken Weeks

5 things to remember when you’re dating someone exclusively.

It Took Years — It Should Have Taken Weeks

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Sep 30, 2020

How to Date After Divorce

A 3-Part Guide to Moving on Powerfully & Finding Love Again

How to Date After Divorce

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Heart Affairs

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Jan 22, 2021

“What’s Your Sex Number?”

Dealing with the mindfuck (and fallout) from the number of past lovers.

“What’s Your Sex Number?”

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Polyamory Today

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Feb 16, 2021

When You’re Not Exactly Cool with Your Girlfriend Being Polyamorous

What to do when the love of your life is polyamorous and you are not.

When You’re Not Exactly Cool with Your Girlfriend Being Polyamorous

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Jan 24, 2021

10 Stages of Dating

The predictable steps you’re likely to take on your journey to finding love.

10 Stages of Dating

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Aug 4, 2025

What Future Faking Really Is — and Why It’s Not Always a Red Flag

There’s a new dating term out there: Future Faking

What Future Faking Really Is — and Why It’s Not Always a Red Flag

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Apr 14, 2023

Goodbye — And Thank You

Dear Readers,

Goodbye — And Thank You

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Hello, Love

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Apr 7, 2023

It’s My Wedding, Not My Mom’s…

Ask Wendy: Dating, Sex & Relationship Advice for the Bold

It’s My Wedding, Not My Mom’s…

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Mar 31, 2023

Online Dating: Is He Into Me or Not?

Ask Wendy: Dating, Sex & Relationship Advice for the Bold

Online Dating: Is He Into Me or Not?

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Mar 24, 2023

Why Don’t Men Approach?

Ask Wendy: Dating, Sex & Relationship Advice for the Bold

Why Don’t Men Approach?

Wendy Newman

Wendy Newman

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Dating & Relationship Expert and Author of 121 First Dates (Simon & Schuster). Over 90,000 women trust Wendy’s advice, tools, & experience. WendyNewmanInc.com

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