A 3-Part Guide to Moving on Powerfully & Finding Love Again Ask Wendy: Dating, Sex & Relationship Advice for the Bold Hey Wendy, I’m getting divorced after 20+ years of marriage. Our kids are grown. I just found out he was cheating on me, and now he’s moving in with…

Dealing with the mindfuck (and fallout) from the number of past lovers. — Ask Wendy: Dating, Sex & Relationship Advice for the Bold Hey Wendy, At the start of dating, my wife told me the number of men she’s had sex with was 3. She’s recently admitted that the real number is 40. How do I not despise her for this? …

What to do when the love of your life is polyamorous and you are not — Ask Wendy: Dating, Sex & Relationship Advice for the Bold Hey Wendy, The love of my life is a polyamorous woman. I reluctantly accept her lifestyle with the understanding that she will involve me in her encounters somehow (watching, videos, audio, etc.) The first attempt at this was with a…

The predictable steps you’re likely to take on your journey to finding love. I went on 121 first dates before I found my love. Can you even imagine? And I discovered there are ten predictable stages to dating. Not everyone experiences all of them, or even in order. But understanding…

Ask Wendy: Dating, Sex & Relationship Advice for the Bold Hey Wendy, I’ve been dating a man for a year, and he has a five-year-old son. He co-parents with his ex-wife and has his son one day a week and every other weekend. We both see longer-term potential in the…

Ask Wendy: Dating, Sex & Relationship Advice for the Bold Hey Wendy, My fiance is refusing to take my last name. Why would the woman who says she loves me not take my name? Troy T. ____ Hey Troy, What’s your last name? Hitler? Dick? Crapper? These are real possibilities…

Ask Wendy: Dating, Sex & Relationship Advice for the Bold Hey Wendy My significant other of four years has forgotten my birthday for two years in a row. Today is my birthday; I just don’t know how I feel about this. I don’t care about presents at all — like…

Ask Wendy: Dating, Sex & Relationship Advice for the Bold Hey Wendy About 5 years ago my husband and I moved in with his parents so we could save up some money to buy a house. Turns out his mother is an emotionally abusive narcissist, which I kinda had a…

Ask Wendy: Dating, Sex & Relationship Advice for the Bold Hey Wendy, My boyfriend and I value work and career very differently. He’s amazing at what he does, and he’s at the top of his field. He likes what he does, but he doesn’t live for work. …